Parenting a la the rich and famous: Russell Simmons and Kimora Lee's Parenting Agreement

The following was taken verbatim from Russell Simmon’s blog The Global Grind. Well, I think it was. I actually found it on somebody else’s website and they attributed it to Mr. Simmons. The reason I picked up on it was because I have seen so many couples who can’t agree on how they are going to share the kids. I have always believed the kids did not get divorced and so to the extent possible, they should be kept of of the marital quabbles of the adults who spawned them. So I was encouraged to discover there are men like Russell out there who can approach this thing so level-headedly, and objectively and rationally. I wish more parents could craft parenting agreements without having to go through the judicial process. Below is what Mr. Russell apparently had to say about his parenting agreement with Kimora Lee:
“Friends of mine have forwarded me gossip online about my custody agreement details with Kimora. The fact is, we’ve had a pretty good partnership at sharing the girls in the past. There have been a few bumps in the road, and those bumps have led us to negotiate a minimum amount of time I’m guaranteed to see my kids. That deal is as follows: I have the girls one full week out of every eight, half of the summer, half of all the holidays, a full week at Christmas, and half of Spring Break. Like in all good partnerships, contracts are meant to protect the partners but are usually not the only way the partners work together. If I show up in L.A., where she now lives, unannounced, I can call up Kimora and she will most likely send them right over. The same goes for when she comes to New York. We have always had a school in New York and a school with the same curriculum in L.A., so when the girls are with me in New York, we can spend quality time together. I can get up with them, take them to school and just be together.
Kimora consults with me about doctors or schools for the girls, but she’s always had final say in those areas. If we had an argument about a school, guess who’s going to win? But there are other stipulations in our agreement where we have to make final decisions together. Anything having to do with business decisions pertaining to my kids cannot be done without my consent.
I’ve also seen a lot about people reading into the supervised visits stipulation. Kimora travels with a security guard and a nanny. In the past, she’s gotten really nervous that I never travel with security, so if it makes her more comfortable to have her security and a nanny with us when I’m with my kids, that’s OK with me.
Finally, I want to say Kimora is a excellent mother and is doing a great job with them. My kids are studying a couple of foreign languages, they travel around the world, they practice yoga, ballet, swimming, karate and piano, among other things…sometimes I think they do too much, but I trust in Kimora on this because she IS a good mother. Regarding the money, my kids live a tremendous life. They do have lots of security, nannies, educators, special programs, travel, chefs, on and on. Their mother manages all of those luxuries and I’m happy to provide for that.
With great love all things are possible.”
I wonder if Kimora wanted as much child support as Lisa Bonder Kerkorian who wanted over $300,000 per month? Oh, that’s right. Russell is not a billionaire. Kirk Kerkorian is a billionaire. He can afford outlandish child support for his “equitable” daughter. I doubt Russell could. But even if he could, does a kid really need that much?