The child-centric divorce

This is a divorce that literally puts the kids on center stage. The rage you and your spouse feel for each other literally disintegrates in this scenario when you look at the face of your innocent children.
Now, if you were them, (I mean the kids) what would you want mommy and daddy to do? I mean, assuming mommy and daddy have decided that they can no longer live a life of “quiet desperation with each other” what is the next best thing, for these little munchkins?
Look them in the eyes, your little kids. What do you think they would want and need, given a choice? And how can you best give it to them?
That is the best way I can think of describing what a child-centric divorce is.