Latest divorce news: Study reveals the obvious: both men and women like it better when the man is the main breadwinner in the family
Divorce rates seem to be determined, at least partially, by who wears the pants in the family. If it is the wife, there will be trouble according to a study done by Cornell University.
It doesn’t really take a rocket scientist to figure out what the latest news reports are revealing. And that is, when a woman has a house-husband, and when she makes more money than her husband, the relationship quickly becomes imbalanced and gender roles get all screwed up. But Cornell University researchers recently came out with a study that legitimizes the obvious: if a woman makes more than her husband, if a woman is the main bread winner in the family, if a woman has a house husband, her marriage is in greater jeopardy of ending in divorce than if the inverse was true.
The study clearly showed that divorce rates are higher for men who make less than their wives. First of all, men whose wives make more money than they do were more likely to cheat on their wives. As the Daily Mail put it, it’s probably because they can’t resist all the “yummy mommies on the playground.” But these men also exhibit a sense of powerlessness and “gender identity threat” when their wives out-earn them. And so they cheat to reaffirm that they wear the pants in the family, according to the study.
Also, when a woman’s income far outpaces her husband’s she is also more likely to cheat on him, and to be dissatisfied with him as a husband, according to the research done in the study.
All of this increased the odds of divorce for that couple and so the rate of divorce is actually higher for couples in this control group.
The opposite is not true, however. When a man out-earns a wife, the marriage is less likely to end in divorce and she is less likely to cheat on him. It can also be inferred from the Cornell study that if the parties make roughly the same income, the problems of infidelity, dissatisfaction and cheating still exists. Something in the male DNA (and probably the female too), needs for the man to make more money and to be the main breadwinner for the man to feel powerful, in control, and, frankly, to feel more like a man. When a man feels like a man in his relationship, he is less likely to cheat; and he has wife who is happier and also less likely to cheat. And feeling like a man seems directly related to how much money he brings home. We can mess with nature all we want. Some fundamental things are never going to change.
But that’s hardly a news-flash. I figured that out when I was about ten years old. Don’t know why it took a study at Cornell for the press to be all over the obvious.
Originally published yesterday, September 9, 2010
UPDATE: COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT ALERT:
A recent study from Cornell University indicated that divorce rates are higher when women make more money than men.
The study showed that men who make less than their wives exhibit a sense of powerlessness and “gender identity threat”, and are more likely to cheat on their wives in an attempt to prove their manliness. As the Daily Mail put it, it’s probably because they can’t resist all the “yummy mommies on the playground.”
Also, when a woman’s income far outpaces her husband’s she is also more likely to cheat on him, and to be dissatisfied with him as a husband.
Naturally, all of these things increased the odds of divorce for that couple.
The study also indicates that if the parties make roughly the same income, the problems of infidelity, dissatisfaction and cheating still exists; but when a man out-earns a wife, the marriage is less likely to end in divorce and she is less likely to cheat on him. emphasis added.
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