How divorce and sex intersect if at all, and all references thereto with a little bit of silly thrown in
Here you are, suddenly single, left alone to persuade the kids that it’s not their fault, having to watch and pretend you’re not jealous as your ex moves on without batting an eyelash, feeling like all your friends made out so much better in their divorces than you did and having to watch as …
Read moreAnd now you are expected to sleep in this king sized bed all alone? Not!
Who knows why? But a lot of people (women especially) get married with rose colored goggles on. Then all of a sudden, when it is time for a divorce, they admit that the man had shown them his true colors before the wedding but that they “married him anyway.” For example, the woman might …
Read moreMarry with eyes wide shut? Divorce with eyes wide open
This is a very sensitive issue, obviously. When a man experiences E-D, it can be devastating to his pride and ego. But it can also destroy a marriage, especially in a situation where the parties’ marital union was based heavily on that aspect of their relationship. The other day, a lady called to consult about …
Read moreIs your husband's impotence causing you to seek a divorce?
By all accounts, a huge percentage of people who get a divorce, find a new relationship within a year and many of them marry a second time. In some cases, serial divorcees keep getting remarried until they die. So yes, after a divorce, I am certain that men will still find you hot. If …
Read moreNow that you're divorced will the guys still think you're hot?
Any type of addiction can destroy a relationship. These days, more and more women are complaining that their spouses are addicted to Internet sites that cater to the “prurient interest.” Is that a basis for divorce in New York? That is a good question. I don’t think that by itself, the fact that your spouse …
Yes. Marital sex is very valuable stuff. I mean, I don’t mean to be indelicate, but the courts, in determining how much, say, a stay at home mother will receive as a divorce settlement, such things as her home-making, companionship, child rearing duties, Sex, and other variables are considered in determining how much a wife will …
I don’t think the statute in New York defines adultery as acts that include “emotional affairs.” It seems to me you would have to prove that your spouse is actively engaged in “adulterous” relations with another person in order to make out a cause of action for adultery (and you know exactly what I mean by …
Read moreMy husband is having an "emotional" affair with another woman
Stop. Think it over. Look at the big picture. Maybe in the end, it is for the best that she told you now rather than later. Adultery seems to devastate men more than it does women. That is not to say that women are not devastated. But men seem to take it a bit harder. …
Read moreMy wife just confessed she's in love with another man. I am so angry I could…
Oh Jeeze. I have no idea. This could be a problem. Why’d you do that? No, but seriously, what possessed you? Well, don’t feel bad. This happens quite often. What it could mean is that you are both not quite sure that divorce is the way to go at this point in your relationship. Or …
Read moreMy husband and I had sex even though we are in the middle of a divorce action. Now what?